The Girl With Sparkles In Her Eyes

Tuesday, January 19, 2016

Take The Challenge

With a loving invitation, I'm calling you out, can you do it?!

I hope so because I can't wait to hear how well this goes for you!!!

From first hand experience, I am blessed to have tried this.

I have a challenge for you guys.

Read this self- affirmation to yourself every day for one month.

Self-affirmation:

Today I will let go of my sense of self (which can be your self-doubts caused by those trying to find someone to use for a crutch or any other issue) so that I will let other channels from outside (which are greater than me and can help mold me and guide me) work their way in. I will love my planet and I will be creative and have fun! I will be present and be mindful. I will not be self- critical. I will be ready and seize opportunities for fun rather than for acceptance allowing myself to be creative through forces and perceptions that are outside of my own. I will trust that the universe will provide for me.

Subnote: Think about it this way, You can’t have clarity with only one perspective. You need more than 2 eyes (or satellites within a signal of communication) for depth.

Try this for one month.

My point of this whole note:

You are more powerful than you think

You don’t have to click on my note to do so every day. I mean come on that’s an unrealistic expectation and time consuming. Just print it off or write it down real quick. Signing your name on the piece of paper and date it. If you forget a day, don’t worry about it, just do it the next day. Watch the blessings flow within.

Ps. This is not chain mail. I wrote this. I have it taped to my wall with bright yellow and green highlighted parts all over it to set the mood. I’m sharing because I have had good luck by doing so. My goal was to let go of my sense of self. However, you may have a different goal. You can write your own affirmation to fit your own needs if this doesn't pertain to you. But try the challenge and let me know how it goes! Love and light guys!

Games

Here's some games to keep you cheeky monks entertained! Enjoy!

Spank the Monkey

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Zelda

<a href="#" onClick=window.open("https://www.thepcmanwebsite.com/media/zelda_game/","","menubar=0,resizable=1,scrollbars=1,status=0,titlebar=0,toolbar=0")>Zelda</a>

Sonic The HedgeHog

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Donkey Kong

<a href="#" onClick=window.open("https://www.thepcmanwebsite.com/media/donkey_kong/","","menubar=0,resizable=1,scrollbars=1,status=0,titlebar=0,toolbar=0")>Donkey Kong</a>

Mario

<a href="#" onClick=window.open("https://www.thepcmanwebsite.com/media/mario/","","menubar=0,resizable=1,scrollbars=1,status=0,titlebar=0,toolbar=0")>Mario</a>

Cutie Quake

<a href="#" onClick=window.open("https://www.thepcmanwebsite.com/media/cutie_quake/","","menubar=0,resizable=1,scrollbars=1,status=0,titlebar=0,toolbar=0")>Cutie Quake</a>

Duck Hunt

<a href="#" onClick=window.open("https://www.thepcmanwebsite.com/media/duck_hunt/","","menubar=0,resizable=1,scrollbars=1,status=0,titlebar=0,toolbar=0")>Duck Hunt</a>

Sometimes you have to be a bitch for you!

Say you have a friend or family member and they are making a huge mistake that could ruin everything! They are about to lose their home, their family, their mind.... What do you do? Keep your nose out of their business, or lend them a hand?

This is a tough subject, so I'm going to tread lightly. But here's where I stand. Now generally I like to keep my nose out of other peoples business and stay drama free! But sometimes you have to address these issues in order to escape getting caught up in their world. It sucks that there are people out here that do so! But that's just life! And life is what we make it! So let's get through this!

Here's how to do so and keep your cool.

The chances are that they either do not want your help or are just too ashamed to ask you for it. They may not have even come to terms with the fact that they have a problem. I get this. But... get over it. You've got this! You may not feel like you have a backbone yet, but I will help you every step of the way! And the even more harsh truth is that you can not help someone who does not want help. But we still have to try. We owe that to ourselves and we owe that to them. But it often ends up in arguments or hitting dead ends.

This is where most people stop and, not realizing what they are doing, subconsciously give up.

Well first off, do you care about this person? And are you are 100% or more sure that they are doing something irreparable that needs to be stopped?

If you answered yes to both of these questions, you absolutely should confront them.

Second, they are in a bad spiral correct? How good of a friend/ family member are you? If you are close with them, you may be the only one who can help them rethink what they are doing wrong. They may be on drugs, they may have a gambling problem, maybe they are trying to get pregnant at 12...I don't know your loved one's situation. But if they are about to ruin their lives, one little bump in the road of them being mad at you for giving them advice is the least of their problems. And you care about them, so I say, for the love of good karma, risk it!

Third, people with these issues are more than likely going to get mad. You can just go ahead and expect that. You need to stand your ground if this happens and address to them that you are not in the mood to waste your time with arguing or changing the subject. Tell them that you realize they don't want to hear what you have to say and it's an easy coping mechanism to do so, but you are saying what you need to say and that's it. Do not argue back or allow yourself to get offended. After all, if we are giving advice and we want someone to follow it, we need them to realize that they are getting advice from a strong person and you might just be a good example. Of course, you might not want to tell them this, you don't want to look arrogant or as if you are all high and mighty.

Offer them some options. For instance, I recently offered to watch someone's kids for them for a few days if they wanted to check themselves in somewhere to get help for a problem. This proved that I meant well. They still didn't admit they had a problem. But I said what I needed to say to someone I love and I would not take it back for the world. They deserve that and so do I.

So my last point is that, Telling someone you love harsh criticism is not mean if you are truly coming from the heart.

Just tread lightly and please, do the right thing. Our world needs more good people. So why not be one of them?!

The truth will set not only you free but may also set them free. When someone uses a crutch for too long, they forget to walk on their own two feet. If they try and make you feel bad for this, stand your ground. If they are a true friend, they will be proud of you and want what's best for you. They may feel this way in secret and not tell you anything. In fact they may feel mad. It may take a lot of emotions to come out for them before they are able to really absorb what you have to say and self actualize it. But that's ok. Let them be mad! Let them be sad! Let them cope! But always say what you feel.

Actions, my friends speak louder than words.

The people you need to keep in your life are the ones who are supportive and do not hold you back. Deep down we all know this, right? It can be hard, but just do it and watch the good karma flow to you. Feel like a bitch doing it? So what, be a bitch. Stand your ground! You are worth every bit of it and there is nothing wrong with being an example to others. You can choose to lead or you can follow. We are all on the same path.

Let me repeat that:

You can choose to lead or you can choose to follow. We are all on the same path.

Thursday, December 17, 2015

Today is going to be a good day!

It's Thursday. We are nearing the weekend. We are nearing Christmas. And, we are nearing a new year. Can you believe 2017 is almost upon us? This year I have done astonishingly well getting through the seasonal depression that ails me every year during this season. Mainly, because I have finally found a good group of friends who are so supportive, like minded, and true to theirselves, I can't imagine how I survived so long without a group of friends like them. I wouldn't trade them in for anything. This has truly been the year of love, and super friends.

But I have been on this spiritual journey. I've been working to fix myself. I finally feel I can do so. It's such a weight off of my shoulders. Today after I got ready and was about to leave the house for work, I kissed my fiancé and said "gotta go! Love you!" He, in the best response ever, said "Have a great day today no matter what!"

No matter how skeptical I can be in the mornings, I've been on this (step out of your comfort zone) kick. So I agreed to do so. I agreed to have a good day, no matter how easy I could have been a grouchI Today I am going to be awesome! I know the girl with sparkles in her eye was being nice. Eat your hearts out world! Anyway, what he said got me thinking.

Lately I've been using mantras all day. And today, what he said is going to be my mantra.

Now let's start today's journey shall we.

(insert coffee into mug first of course.)